What are ways to break that funk and find meaningful connections? But before I answer that, there are a few parts to your question that I want to address. I live in NYC, one of the biggest dating markets with some of the busiest people. Reason 2: She sucks Somewhat likely Sometimes people just suck and cancel. She was giving you a soft rejection by saying yes in the moment and cancelling later. How can you tell if something genuinely came up, or she sucks?
Photograph Credit: Manchik Photography In matters of love, uncertainty abounds, especially for men. Will she say yes if I ask her out? Will she accede to me kiss her after a at the outset date? I know it can be tough for guys. No one likes to be rejected.